Stoking the Embers
Stoking the Embers
Stay Fired Up, Catholics! Here's how!
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Stay Fired Up, Catholics! Here's how!

Five Tips for staying fired up in a modern world that has gone cold

In a world that’s gone lukewarm, it’s time to stoke the fire. Here are five bold, practical, and spiritual ways to stay fired up in your Catholic life. This is not just a pep talk. It’s a spiritual wake-up call. NOTE: read the notes I was using, with a little more detail, in this post here

Whether you’re a practicing Catholic, a returning wanderer, or someone who just feels the flame is burning low and going out, these are your marching orders.
This is the first “Firebrand forum” episode. More to come.

🔥 “A glowing ember dies down if it’s not stoked.”
If you’re ready to reignite your zeal for Jesus Christ and live the faith like it matters, this episode is for you.


🧭 Show Notes

0:00 – Welcome to The Firebrand Forum

  • TJ greets the live audience with his trademark mix of humor, warmth, and energy.

  • Quick backstory on Stoking the Embers and the mission to turn sparks into a fire seen from space.

3:00 – Why Even Practicing Catholics Need a Reboot

  • The danger of spiritual complacency.

  • Why being “comfortable” in faith can quietly smother your fire.

5:00 – Tip #1: Keep the Flame Fed — Daily Prayer & Sacraments

  • Prayer isn’t optional; it’s oxygen for your soul.

  • St. Francis de Sales’ timeless wisdom: “Half an hour of meditation a day—unless you’re busy. Then, an hour.”

  • Confession as monthly maintenance for your spiritual engine.

13:00 – Tip #2: Stay Close to the Saints & Scripture

  • Saints aren’t distant heroes—they’re companions who’ve walked the same path.

  • Why daily Scripture—even just a few verses—can ignite divine insight.

  • “The saints were where you are.” Learn from them.

23:00 – Tip #3: Practice Small Acts of Love

  • You don’t need to do great things—just consistent ones.

  • How small daily sacrifices build holiness brick by brick.

25:00 – Tip #4: Keep Community Around Your Flame

  • “Lone embers grow cold.”

  • Why authentic Catholic community is non-negotiable.

  • Dealing with hecklers, hostility, and anti-Catholic noise with grace (and a bit of fire).

36:00 – Tip #5: Expect Resistance and Press On

  • Spiritual fire will meet the wind—don’t mistake resistance for failure.

  • The wisdom of St. Ignatius: “When we are on God’s side, the enemy stirs a thousand difficulties.”

  • How God uses resistance to make you stronger.

40:00 – Wrap-Up & Mission Reminder

  • TJ’s closing message: God takes you seriously. Take your faith seriously, too.

  • Connect on Substack, TikTok, or anywhere @RealTJHaines.

  • “Keep your fire burning bright. The world needs your light.”


🔑 Key Points Covered

  • Why spiritual comfort is dangerous—and how to overcome it.

  • How to build a consistent prayer life rooted in honesty, not perfection.

  • The Saints as living proof that holiness is possible in ordinary life.

  • The power of small, daily acts of love and sacrifice.

  • The need for Catholic community to keep your fire alive.

  • How to interpret resistance as a sign of grace, not defeat.

  • The truth that spiritual fire always meets the wind—but it’s made stronger by it.

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